Exactly, life is an unfair journey to.. heaven knows where.
The moment I feel life was hitting on me, Im suddenly confronted by the thought, that possibly, my seatmate was right, Isa lang ang kailangan mong baunin sa araw-araw, lakas ng loob.
Guys don't cry, they fight! Cause they know life is tough.. and to live and survive, you must be tougher. Some guys who have their hearts broken, trust no one. That was hard for them. We know, including me, that everything was unfair, and there's no such thing as equal or balance. Everything is being compared, people never have the same story, family, environment nor attitudes.
At the end, all of us will feel the feelings like angst, remorse, bitterness, irritated, annoyed, insulted, miserable, guilt, thankful, pleased, blessed, admired, challenged but never satisfied. No one can achieve the complete happiness and satisfaction without courage. If you have it then your willing to risk something, the possibilities are, you'll win or lose, but neither the two, there's something to gain.
You faced something you never thought you will.
There's nothing to fear if you have the courage.
From there, you'll see how fruitful each obstacle's result was. Before Im afraid to ride the space shuttle until now I am, cause I don't have the courage to try it. I felt weak cause my schoolmates told me that they have rode that for several times. There happy and all that but me, Im not completely happy after the fieldtrip coz I didnt have the courage to face my fear and feel the fun.
What's important is that, make a life of happiness instead a life of meaning, make every drop of tears worth the pain and every happiness was shared, maybe life is unfair, it was designed by God that way. But no matter, people will love to hear that you already face your fear.
ALAS, Im happy for you if you can be tougher than life.
NO pain, NO gain. Remember that.